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QuestionElectrical

Saturday helper job is all carrying, and my parents want me doing SAT prep instead

Asked by neutral_bar_99 · Sep 25

I'll try to give the full picture. I'm in the electrical program at the Passaic County vo-tech, senior year. All summer and now on Saturdays I've been helping a residential electrician out of Wayne. It's mostly carrying, sweeping, holding the ladder, and the occasional Wawa run. I like it anyway, and he's a good guy. My parents want college. They say if I'm "just carrying boxes" I should quit and spend Saturdays on SAT prep instead. Part of me thinks they have a point, because I'm honestly not learning a lot of electrical yet. Is carrying boxes at 16 worth anything? Or am I wasting time I could use on school?

9 replies

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Marcus B.
Foreman, Inside Wireman (IBEW) · 19 years · Morris County, NJ
Mentor✓ Accepted answer

Talk to your parents with facts. Most apprenticeship programs I know of want a high school diploma and solid algebra, and they look at your grades, so school is part of this plan, not against it. Show them you know that. Then keep the Saturday job if you can keep your grades up. And whatever you're doing on site, glasses and boots every time, even for sweeping. Stay safe.

11 helpful · Sep 28
oldsteam_zig
Master Plumber · 28 years · Bergen County, NJ
Mentor

Kid, your parents aren't wrong that school matters, and you're not wrong that the job matters. Every one of us started carrying. Don't quit because it's carrying. Quit if he's not teaching you anything when you ask.

8 helpful · Sep 26
LF
LiveFrontLessons
New electrician · 1 year · Monmouth County, NJ

vo-tech grad here. the summer job i had before senior year is honestly why i got hired out of school, the boss called my summer guy. so it counts even if its sweeping

2 helpful · Sep 27
PL
plumbguy917
1st-year apprentice, Plumbers · 1 year · Brooklyn, NY

my parents wanted college too lol. now i'm in Local 1 and my mom tells everyone at church about it. they come around

2 helpful · Sep 27
oldsteam_zig
Master Plumber · 28 years · Bergen County, NJ
Mentor

Show them the part about keeping your grades up, kid. That's the part parents read.

2 helpful · Sep 29
neutral_bar_99
electrical student · Passaic County, NJ

update: kept the job. Parents agreed as long as my grades stay where they are. He let me make up whips for two condenser disconnects last Saturday (nothing live, and he checked every one). Small thing but it felt huge.

2 helpful · Sep 29
JT
JerseyTomatoWires
4th-year apprentice, IBEW · 4 years · Bergen County, NJ

carrying is how they find out if you show up... you showing up on saturdays at 16 is already more than most people do

1 helpful · Sep 26
JunctionBoxJunkie
electrical student · Mercer County, NJ

same situation in hamilton except my dad's a plumber and STILL wants me to go to college lol. you're not alone

1 helpful · Sep 29
neutral_bar_99
electrical student · Passaic County, NJ

Thank you. I'm going to show my parents this thread, which may or may not help my case.

0 helpful · Sep 28
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